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Monday, April 30th, 2007 |
Love makes me complete. I have found what I was searching for all these years. The emptiness in my heart has been filled with love. My darling has given me the real life. I live for love. I live for my darling. What is life without love? There is nothing more important than love in life, because love is life.
Are you in euphoric love with someone and have submerged yourself in that love so much, that nothing else is any more important in life for you? Do you only want to be with your sweetheart, please him/her and feel the high of love at all the times? Have you submerged your personality in love and now do only what pleases your sweetheart? You may not be aware of it, but what feels so life-giving, may one day threaten your life if your darling turns away.
Are you an emotional animal, with very strong emotions? All your emotions are very strong and your heart rules over your heart? Then you are getting totally dependant on your beloved to get love and feel good. When he/she will walk away one day, you will feel strong emotions of loneliness, sadness and hurt. You will feel cheated. You will self beat yourself continuously and try to regain that love, but it will not return. Note that your partner may not feel the euphoric love that has engulfed you so much. Your partner may be more practical and can walk away if you begin to become a liability.
This may not necessarily happen. All partners don’t leave. You may continue enjoying the love. But try to get satisfaction and try to feel fulfilled with other means also. Don’t get totally dependant on your love. Spreading your love from one person to many others may be one solution. That will not be romantic love of course, but love of compassion and purity.
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Monday, April 30th, 2007 |
A couple in deep love with each other, finds love everywhere, because they are filled with passion. But there are certain places where the joy of romancing increases manifold. One can never imagine of romance on a busy street with cars honking all the time. To romance and share what the heart says in silence, go to watch sunsets. You will truly enjoy the passion. If you watch a sun set near a sea shore, that will even double the joy.
Imagine the sun setting on the horizon, and the sky turning darker slowly. Watch the sun rays that change in colors as they reflect from the clouds. You will see few birds flying around going back to their homes, and the peaceful sea with waves unendingly kissing the shore.
The sun sets slowly. As you watch it, you can feel it dipping in the ocean. The colors change very fast and the reflections from the clouds look mesmerizing. If both of you are alone on the shore, it will make you so close to Mother Nature, that you would feel nothing else exists on the earth except both of you and the nature. It is peaceful, and hearts can talk to each other. Words are not needed when one watches such enchanting sights. One can as well talk with the heart. Look at the waves. Somehow waves look quiet during the sunset. But they keep reaching the shore, touch it, and go back. This is the unending dance that has been going on since millions of years. Watch the sun’s reflection on the ocean. Even if you were not a poet, you would write a poem about your beloved and the sunset.
We are all troubled with day-to-day work and worries. They are unending. Romance brings a new freshness in life and watching a sunset together can make you touch that fresh feeling, as if no worries ever existed. As the sun sets, and the night arrives, get up and return to your nest as all the birds have already done. Gather as many such moments as possible because after few years, they will become your most cherished treasures. Life is short.
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Monday, April 30th, 2007 |
The foundation of love is trust. Love thrives on trust. Love demands trust. Love gives trust. When you love a person, you expect that the person is fully trustworthy and you become trustworthy to him/her in return. In love, you give your all to your beloved and you do that only because you trust.
For any love relationship to last, the trust must last. Once the trust is lost, it hurts. The betrayed partner cannot stop loving the untrustworthy partner, but cannot trust him/her. This creates a very difficult situation. In the beginning, when you love someone deeply, you refuse to believe that your partner will ever breach your trust. Despite all the indications to the contrary, you ignore the warnings. When the trust is fully broken, you awake to the bitter and sad truth. That gives you a real shock. Some people, who are totally blinded in love, still refuse to believe that their partner lied to them. Once one is convinced of that, they get shattered. A break-up may follow with disastrous results for one who was lied upon.
Love is a pure feeling. Consider any love. Love of a mother for her children, or love of a saint for God, every type of love is pure. Romantic love is equally pure. Love gives bliss because you find a partner who cares for you and who can be trusted by you. Similarly you shower care and love upon him/her and remain truthful. Even the smallest lie can sometimes create suspicion and spoil the love forever. Some lovers are suspicious by nature and if they suspect anything, they break up.
If the lies are about another relationship, the results will be worse. As jealousy enters into the picture, the consequences can at times be disastrous. As said before, love is a pure feeling. No lover should lie in this relationship. Truth about any and everything will be still better, because lies always get exposed in the end.
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