Monday, April 30th, 2007 |
Your response to many situations is casual. You do not bother much. For example if there is a hurricane, thousand miles from your place, you treat it casually. But when the same hurricane hits near your place, you respond with great alacrity. This analogy can be applied to your relationships. Are you treating your relationship casually or do you take utmost care to make sure that everything always goes well?
When you talk to your partner, is your approach abrupt? Do you treat your partner carelessly at times? Have you come to the stage of relationship when you believe that it is perpetual? When you come to that stage your approach become casual. Till you try to woo your partner, you are very alert. Once you win him/her over, your approach may become casual. This is a common pitfall. Once this attitude becomes an every day affair, the relationship suffers and like a brick taken out from a wall a day, the wall of relationship slowly becomes weak and one day collapses to your shock. You are then left wondering about what went wrong. So, do not keep your attitude casual. Always be loving and caring towards your partner.
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Monday, April 30th, 2007 |
Here is a thought that can bring freshness in your relationship. Tell your partner why you love them. Yes, tell them about all the good qualities they have. Tell them everyday about why they are so lovely. Do you think that they know about why you love them? Ask them and you may be in for a surprise.
If you make your partner feel good, you will feel good. And the appreciation that you will get from your partner will be the icing on the cake. Most of you focus on what is going wrong. Why not shift the focus to - what is going right? No two individuals are ever similar. No two individuals will have a life without any strife. Why not reduce unhappiness and bring in cheer? Be very liberal with your praise. Be very stingy with blames and criticism.
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Thursday, April 12th, 2007 |
Every person has their own romantic fantasies. Each fantasy has its own unique feeling, tone, and theme.
Some people have simple fantasies, yet others elaborate their romantic dreams with many sophisticated details. There is one thing in common with all romantic fantasies, however. It is desiring something that you don’t already have in your life and that can only come true with a romantic partner.
Fantasies provide peace of mind and escape from the real world, and romantic fantasies in particluar serve as a vehicle to a more satisfying sex life. Fantasies put people in touch with their sensuality, while also allowing them to become more comfortable with themselves and their relationships.
Women tend to be more sensual and romantic, relying on soft lighting, scented candles and slow music to set the mood. When most women fantasize about making love, it is often with a focus on their current partner (though sometimes someone unattainable, famous, etc. may creep into the mind’s eye.) Location and setting play important roles as well, and the emotional connection is critical in most cases.
For some women, the ultimate fantasy is just spending time with the one they love. As one woman revealed, “I have the occasional naughty fantasies, but more than anything, I think about being curled up in his arms.”
Sharing Your Fantasy
Very often, both partners in a relationship have fantasies they would like to share with their partners, but they don’t reveal them. Fantasies evoke strong emotions and revealing them can make you vulnerable. Therefore, fantasies are usually kept private. To present your secret thoughts to someone can take courage.
It is easy and comfortable to assume that revealing your fantasies will not be appreciated by your partner. Although no one can read another person’s mind, most people think their partner would not want to live out a fantasy with them.
Tell Your Partner What You Want
How to tell your partner about your romantic fantasies?
All you have to do is be clear about what you want and then tell your partner. Yes, this may sound easier to do than it is, but what do you have to lose? If you have someone who loves you, that person may be more eager to make you happy than you think.
Try This:
Write your fantasy down in one sentence. Have your partner write his or her fantasy down as well.
Now that you have written it down, you should be clear about what you want.
The next step is to share the fantasy with your partner. Go ahead, you will be surprised who easily fantasies can become reality!
Remember, your sensual and romantic thoughts can become reality if you share them with your love. Enjoy!
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