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We Found Each Other

Written on February 4, 2007 – 5:14 pm | by admin | No Comments |
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I never believed in online relationships or that it’ll last. I always hear all these horror stories of online relationships. To make it even harder, it would be a long-distanced relationship. A few friends of mine that have been in a long-distanced relationships always tells me not to get involve in one because it just brings too much pain and all it brings is heartaches. I’ve always listened to them until I met my love.

It all began during the summer of 2000. I was bored one day in August of 2000 and I was searching for something to do online and I saw this banner at this teen matchmaker place. So since I was bored I decided just to sign up just for the heck of it. Like I said, I never believed in online relationships or does it last that long either and meeting someone that I can actually share some interesting conversations with was no way. Well, after a couple of days on there I happened to stumble upon Jared’s (my current boyfriend) profile and just from reading his profile, I already had this sudden feeling that I knew he was different from other guys. So after reading his profile I send him a letter saying hello and just starting a conversation. When I got a reply back from him I never expected much. We kept writing letters back and forth throughout that whole year and our letters just got longer and longer. It was incredible. It was amazing because I actually found this friend who I can share anything with and I can trust him. By November of 2000 I started to kind of develop a feeling for him but I just put it in the back of my mind, knowing it was probably just a crush I had and it’ll be gone. By the time February came along I knew I had to tell him. Jared also called me for the first time for my birthday in February and we finally heard each other’s voices. The second time we talked that same month I knew that I had to tell him, I told him I had something to tell him but I just didn’t know if it was the right time and if it was the right choice either. I never got the guts to tell him on that phone call. On March 5, 2001, I told him I had feelings for him. I could hear my heart thumping really hard just waiting for a reply after I typed that to him. He then told me that he had feelings me for me too and he didn’t want to get hurt or ruin the friendship, one of the obvious reasons. That was the actual day we decided to start a relationship together.

Right now Jared and I are still trying to get through this long-distanced relationship. Everyday we would talk to each other and just reminding each other that we’ll make it. Jared always tells me that we have to get through the bad to get to the good stuff… I agree with him. It’s just really hard not seeing the one you love because of this distance. We both know though that our love will get us through this and we will be in each other’s arms someday soon. We would call each other sometimes to hear each other’s voices and then him and I would send pictures to each other. We know that we’re meant for each other, there’s just no doubt about it. You just know when that person is the one you’re going to spend the rest of your life with. There’s this feeling there in our hearts that tells us that we’re meant for each other. We’re connected in mind and heart and Jared and I will not let this distance ruin this relationship. We are planning to work out someway and see each other during next summer.

I am glad I gave a chance to long-distanced relationships. If I have not, then I would have never met my boyfriend. His love that he tries to show me everyday, and his sweet and caring heart helps me get through this. I thank God everyday that fate has found a way to bring us together. I also thank him everyday for bringing so much happiness into my life even though this distance does make me depress sometimes he makes it all go away and I love him for that. I love you Jared.

My Dark Prince

Written on February 4, 2007 – 5:14 pm | by admin | No Comments |
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I met my boyfriend online at yep.com a free chatroom I did not intentionally did not mean to go to this chat, I was at vlad tepeshs homepage I saw this chat, and i was like “lets go”! lol. So, i went there and I met not my boyfriend, but a kid named mystical prince I went and IM him, so a couple days later I met him 2 days later, I hated him at first he pissed me off like crazy. So, I got to know him more and he told me somewhat about his life I told him mine too, his sis has almost the exact same nic as he does, so I got her mixed up with jesse. Eventually after a long conversation with her she told me he was in germany looking for her, I was like you coulda told me before smartbutt. LOL. anyhow, I fell madly in love with him. I saw him all the time when he came on my heart fluttered my stomach filled with butterflies. I was so happy with him he made me who i am now. I told him everything I trusted him with all my heart its been 5 months now and believe me THERE HAVE BEEN MANY MANY BUMPS AND TURNS AND CURVES, what me and jesse ahd was destroyed i thought i could never love again he came online and we worked it out my heart was happy and pumping again i was so DAMN HAPPY! lol. ME and jes, are doing very well. we know what we want and we know who we wanna spend it with each other. if anyone would like to comment on this or give some advice feel free to, but please no nasty emails. Thank you! alicia

Endlessly

Written on February 4, 2007 – 5:12 pm | by admin | No Comments |
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As boundless as the sea. As eternal as a flame burning in the distance. As endless as the night sky and all its stars. This, is my love.

It was late October and the cold weather blowing outside found me huddled in my chair in front of the computer. I was downloading songs off napster and browsing around in the chat rooms when one user started persuading me to exchange pictures with him. Not being one to fraternize with suspiciously persistent people, I refused. It was then that I received a private message from Joseph, he was poking fun at the guy in the chat room who was as he said “coming on to me”. We laughed and talked for quite a while till he had to leave for lunch. So we exchanged email addresses and said we’d keep in touch. I remember smiling to myself after he left.

I’ve talked to a few people via the internet but none had remained on my mind like Joseph. But I reminded myself that it was just trivial because of the circumstances, so when I hadn’t received an email from him, I tried not to let it bother me.

I’d been busy with school so I hadn’t been able to try to catch him on napster. I figured that I wouldn’t hear from Joseph again. I’m not going to lie and say that I wasn’t disappointed, because I was. A week passed and the moment the little box appeared on my screen, my eyes grew wide. It was him! I couldn’t believe he still remembered me. We talked and shared the news in our lives briefly, when he asked to exchange phone numbers. My breath caught in the back of my throat and I gave him my number. Something I never would have thought to do. When he called me for the first time, I laughed to myself. I had expected a western twang accent because he was in Dallas, Texas. But he didn’t, his voice was so masculine and disarming. I was entranced. The first words from his mouth were “Hey, what’s up?” I knew at this moment that he was someone who would be an amazing friend. Looking back, we know how easy it felt between us, everything seemed familiar. I truly felt like I had known him for years. It wasn’t surprising to either of us that we ended up having so much in common. I remember bringing up how many times the words “exactly!” and “I know!” came up in our conversations. Joseph’s personality was enticing and he never failed to put a smile on my face. We talked for hours, though it was as if time stood still.

In the following days, Joseph called me frequently. We talked about how different Americans and Canadians seemed to be. And we laughed at each other’s antics. In the back of my mind, I knew he was special. So when my parents changed our phone number, I was heart broken for the two weeks I hadn’t heard from him. One day, we caught each other on napster and I couldn’t hide it anymore. I was scared, but I confessed that I had missed him. He tells me now that he smiled at how I said it, I guess my nerves hindered my ability to make sense. When he called me later that day, we admitted that we had feelings for each other. My heart was beating out of control and I felt all giddy inside. I admitted that I had picked up the phone a dozen times only to dial halfway through his number and hang up. I was so nervous that he wouldn’t know who I was. That’s when he told me that every time his phone rang, he wished it would be me. I couldn’t believe I could feel so much for someone the way I felt for Joseph.

Later that day, I called him for the first time. I remember being so nervous, but as soon as I heard his voice, everything fell into place. We ended up talking forever. After I hung up with him, I called my best friend and told her to meet me in the computer lab on campus. I wanted to put together a film to surprise him. I had written a poem for him telling him how much I felt for him and that I truly believed that this was destiny. After viewing the film, he confessed that there were tears in his eyes… then he told me that he loved me. I told him that I loved him too and that I was just too afraid to tell him. Since that day, Joe and I have become so close I feel like for the first time in my life, I am complete. We officially became a couple on November 29th, and I love him more and more each day.

Joe isn’t like other guys I’ve met; I knew that from the moment we first talked. He is the most caring person I’ve ever known. We know everything about each other; trust is the ultimate virtue of our relationship. I can’t even begin to describe how blessed I feel to have Joe in my life. He’s always been there for me through thick and thin. I remember crying on the phone with him for the first time. I was so touched that he would let me open up myself like that and I honestly felt his arms around me that night.

Joe and I are soul mates. We can read each other’s minds and we finish each other’s sentences. I will never forget our moments together, singing on the phone, laughing till we cry, sharing dreams and sharing fears. He gives me hope in life, and each day that passes, I know, is a day that brings me closer to being with him. Though we are miles apart, our love is something that transcends distance and believing that what we have is so incredibly real, gives us the strength and faith to know we’ll make it. He will be moving up here this summer and we plan to move in together. I can only imagine how amazing this new beginning, this new life, will be with the man I love.

I am 18 years old and I have met the love of my life. Joe has captured my heart and my whole being. Each time he whispers in my ear late at night, I know he is my forever. He brings out the best in me, and gives me the inspiration to be the best I can be. Love comes in our lives unannounced, and it is our hearts’ duty to hold on to this with both hands. Joe and I have this saying “endlessly”, when you love someone the way we love each other, it is unconditional, boundless, eternal, and…. Endless.

Baby, I love you with all my heart. Thank you for being a part of my life, till the day we are together, close your eyes and dance with me. I will always be your “lady in red”.